My wife and I are still coming to grips with their independence, the risks that they take, the places they go and the things that they do. They are good boys and we trust them a lot but its hard to let go. I remember VERY WELL what I did at their age and the thought of them doing the same kind of things worries me. I know this makes me a hypocrite but I can't help it - I care VERY much for them.
My Mum recently shared her experiences of raising me and the worries she had with my running about at all hours, drinking etc... Her comment - and my thought for the day was - "keep your mouth shut and your arms open!" It is simple, easy to remember and VERY hard to do. Love you kids, don't be too critical, but love them unconditionally!
It's Sunday night and they are home, safe and sound, sitting around the lounge room floor, swapping stories and laughing. There's not much better than having the family close by, happy and safe.
Today was spent tending the garden, planting some trees and shrubs, going for a long run through the hills and meeting with an old friend to plan a community event. Even Molly, our trusty old golden retriever, got interested in the garden.So a busy week awaits but not before an early morning rise (3am) to watch the US Grand Prix.
So give your kids a hug, tell them you love them and be there for them.
Have a GREAT day!
Lucky Phil
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